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Thursday, January 17, 2019

You Just Can't Find a Boyfriend


“You’re just a lesbian because you can’t find a boyfriend.” 

Um, no. First of all, you know how easy it is to find a boyfriend?! Give me anything with internet connection and about six minutes. I’ll have multiple dates/hookups scheduled with NO problem. How? Because I’m a woman. If you’re a living, breathing, real-life, human woman, you can find a plethora of men who want to have sex with you right now. No shortage issues here.

You know what’s extraordinarily difficult? Finding a GIRLfriend. Gay people are only 1/10 of the population. Half that number and you’re left with queer women. Then half that number to get people who are on dating apps. Then half that number to get semi-normal people who can hold a conversation. Then half that number to eliminate people who use Snapchat filters on their dating profiles. (*shakes fist at those damn animal face filters*) We haven’t even added specifications for types or presentation yet. You see how tiny these numbers are getting?


While I could find a boy online within the hour, I find myself CONSTANTLY running into this message on my dating apps:

Her



Tinder



In other words, not only are you single, but also, there are NO women around you to date. Now, I’m definitely not saying that most men out there are date-worthy, but at least I never ran out of straight men to swipe left on. Yeeeesh!

So, when people say, “You’re just a lesbian because you can’t find a boyfriend,” I respond with: